Oh my Goddess! The year is off to a flying start and for many this year is one of many changes – fantastic changes and also finding your own rhythm! Dancing to the beat of your own drum.
What do I mean when I say that? Well naturally, alot of us seem to be the caretakers of others. Not in a way of ‘bending over backwards’ but more in a way of being in that ‘supportive’ or ‘service’ role. To the point where at we tend to ‘dance to the rhythm drum beat of others’. Whether they be our husbands, our kids, our work colleagues -it can get a little weary at times and we find ourselves starting to search. Searching for our own purpose in life. Or finding the courage to do those things that we’ve only dreamed about. So how do we do this, well it’s about just making a first step forward. how do I do that , you ask?
Let me tell you about my siSTAR, Luanne.
When growing up, my sistar was always quite shy really. While our parents had other ‘engagements’ Luanne looked after us. She has always been in service to the point where looking back, she also missed out on alot. Missed out on the things she wanted to do. Naturally, you could also imagine how this would’ve affected self confidence in a way. As the years rolled by, Luanne fell into this
‘supportive’ background role pushing people out the front to shine without the recognition she deserved. Spending your time creating space for others so that they felt supported. Luanne was living the rhythm of others – family, work etc…
Fast forward a few more years, my sistar now shines. She always has but now she recognises her own ‘Shine of brightness’ . She still in ‘service’ of course but in a way that there is balance and also control. I said earlier that Luanne would push the people she loved out the front so the world can see them shine? Well what Luanne has created is a space where there is no need for ‘pushing’ . A space where there is no need for ‘hiding’ to stay unknown.
Luanne has created a space called ‘Goddess on Purpose’ – her on thumb print in the universe. What is her role in her purpose? Well she doesn’t ‘push’ anymore. She’s out front , shining brightly and if my physics is correct, if you’re pushing from out front’ you’re pushing backwards! 😉 Being out front, you don’t want to pull either which is the beautiful thing about what Luanne has created. You still have to ‘work’, you still have to dance to your own beat of the drum.
One thing is for sure is that, it would be your rhythm, your drum beat. Knowing your purpose and living it – what a way to start the year! 🙂
My siSTAR dances to her own Rhythm of life, and I can see the music is ‘cranked up high!’
This change in the ‘right’ direction in my siSTARS life has brought us to celebrating her first ‘LIVE’ event of Goddess on Purpose in March this year. If you are at the point where you feel that you are still searching “What’s my purpose?’ and if you do know then the question maybe “How do I start?” – Then Goddess on Purpose event is the place to be.
Click on ‘Show me how to dance to my own beat’ – have a look around and follow my lead …”you put your right foot in, your right foot out, you do the hokey pokey and you spin around……” 😉